We all use sex toys, but if anyone tells you otherwise, they are lying. Touching yourself is hot, so imagine how sexy it would be to do it with someone else. This is what we call sex toys, and their purpose is to experience intimate moments with your partner. Whatever your solo fetish, this one won’t disappoint. Adult toys come in many forms, so why not add some spice to the mix? Taking turns watching each other and having fun together will raise the stakes and take sexy time to a whole new level.
What are sex toys and why are they a great idea?
Sex toys can be an incredibly intimate and exciting experience when explored together with your partner. Not only do they offer a unique opportunity for increased pleasure and more sensual exploration, but they also allow you to give each other real-time feedback on what you like and dislike. Plus, they offer plenty of opportunities to try out different adult toy techniques. Whether you prefer the traditional “watch each other” approach or want to go further and play simultaneously,
The possibilities are endless. First, one of the biggest benefits of sex toys is that they reduce the pressure of performance. There is no competition between partners. There is no need to worry about being perfect every time or fulfilling a specific role. Instead, both partners can simply explore themselves and their partner’s body without comparing themselves to each other. Additionally, sex toys can also add an extra level of intimacy to your relationship. Seeing someone being pleased is very personal and helps both parties get to know each other better on an emotional and physical level. Not only will you learn what turns them on the most, but you may also find out more about how they like to be touched and how far they are willing to go.
Talk about it casually
Before you get started, consider the concept with your partner. As with any erotic experience that intrigues you, it’s best to start with a dialogue. This way, you and your partner can have an open and honest conversation about what you need and want from the experience, or whether you’d even like to try it. Answer questions like, “What kind of sex toys does your partner like?” and “Does it bring you two closer?” For example, couples who live apart may see solo play as a way to foster emotional intimacy, while couples with different levels of libido may look for strategies to ensure each partner are having fun.
