Enjoying erotic sex is not a bad thing. It means understanding your body, how it works, and how to connect with another person in an intimate act. Whether your pleasures are erotic sex in lingerie or blow jobs, erotic sex gives you the ultimate pleasure. Recently, a friend told me that for the first time, she had an orgasm during erotic intercourse. I was confused because she had often told me that she had a wonderfully erotic sex life. I asked her, and she said that she had a good erotic sex life and that orgasm was not that important during erotic sex. Can erotic sex without orgasm be good or even great? After discussing it with her for some time, I turn to you, the help members. Is erotic sex with orgasm better?
Enjoy the moment
She said it was all about enjoying the moment and pleasing your partner. It was harder to make sure your partner was happy. Suppose you focus on your needs. This is a little true to me. When I perform oral sex with my partner, I don’t do the position; I want to make sure my partner is happy before continuing with the rest of the act and that her body is wet enough to provide us with a natural lubricant. In any case, I try to make my partner orgasm before moving on to the main act to make sure she feels satisfied. This makes him more eager to get going, which makes it even more exciting. Sometimes, we can’t, but most of the time, we’ll both have an orgasm, so erotic sex is great in those cases.
The Verdict
Can erotic sex still be good without an orgasm? I think, yes, it’s possible to have good erotic sex, but it won’t be as exciting and fantastic as when you have an orgasm. An orgasm is the build-up and release of pleasure, and without it, erotic sex can be very dull. Could you show us what you got? Think about it – is erotic sex good without orgasm? You can use the comments below or check them out to give your feedback.