Sexual relationships have always been confusing, especially today when there are many more “titles” than just boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, and wife.
Open communication from the beginning is the best way to avoid confusion, but sometimes that’s not possible and you have to figure everything out yourself. Is it a one-night stand or are you in a sexual relationship? Do you want a sexual relationship as well? Does your partner want that? Luckily, some signs can give you some insight.
As the name suggests, sexual flirting is the most informal and sexiest type of sexual relationship. It’s all about enjoying all the pleasure without the pain and drama of a serious sexual relationship. There are no obligations and no emotions, you meet for a few fun hours and forget everything until the next meeting. If you’re not sure what your “status” is, here are some tips to help you out:
Never Stay Over at Someone Else’s House
There’s a reason one of the most important rules in a sexual relationship is “never stay over at someone’s house.” After sexual intimacy, you want to avoid awkwardness and small talk. Also, going out for breakfast in the morning can create a false sense of intimacy, which is best avoided at all costs if you are looking for something purely sexual.
So as for sleepovers, they should be a rare occurrence in a sexual relationship nd are best left at that. Pillow talk can be nice and romantic, but that is not why you start dating someone.
You want urn own space after work and sexual intimacy for you is just that: sex. You don’t have to spend time with someone and then talk afterward you decided to have a one-night stand because you don’t want all the sexual.
Plus, there’s still work to be done the next morning. You can’t just wait or them to wake up, have their coffee and breakfast, and then move on. And who wants to spend their mornings wrapped in the sheets looking for their partner? So if you or your partner has a rule about not having slumber parties, know that it is a sign of lack of commitment. It makes it very clear that you only want sex and nothing else.
They are not part of each other’s lives
To maintain a purely sexual relationship, you need to avoid any kind of sexual interaction outside of the bedroom. Meeting friends and family should not be included in a sexual relationship. This is about a sexual relationship, you could be invited to social events, get to know each other better, sand pond more time together… if you are only interested in sex, it all sounds terrible. A clear sign of your sexuality is how much you talk about your partner with your friends, or more specifically, how little you all about them. Of course, it’s always fun to share details about your sexual relationship d talk about what you’ve done, but if you keep talking about the person, it doesn’t seem so sexy anymore, right? And if you don’t want to make your sexual relationship serious, but still want to have sex, it’s a must to stay away from their inbox. You should limit your texting to seating and do it less frequently.
